Life is a passage and a process in which the growing is important. Would you plant a seed, and then pull up the seedling when it starts to grow, to make it grow faster? No. You water it, fertilize it, and enjoy its fruits as it matures and then ripens. So is life an unfolding to experience as you grow and learn, whether through storms or sun. Mother Nature makes no judgments on the events of weather; nor should you make judgments of yourself and your life. Only make choices, and tend yourself.
Life is a process and a passage, not a drive-through.